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New Years Resolutions | 2nd Quarter Check-In

It’s the summer! The sun is shining, the days are long and bright, Wimbledon is on the TV, and we’re closer to this year’s Christmas than we were last year’s. The first 3 months of the year were not my best, and although I am not progressing like I’d like with my weightless/health journey, I think I’m not doing too bad half way through the year!

For the past couple of years, I have made a resolutions list, and then checked back semi-regularly to hold myself accountable and actually think about things to focus my time on. My 2019 Resolutions list is once again made up of a mixed bag of motivations that were supposed to be carrying me through 2019 in a positive and healthy way. I know that I haven’t had these in the front of my mind this year for a whole host of reasons, but also know that if they were, I would probably be making bigger strides than I am this year. I checked in at the end of March to see how I was getting on and definitely think I am doing better than I thought I would be.

My list is split up into sections, just like it was on my original 2019 Resolutions list. I’ve kept it like this to see if there are any areas I’m doing better or worse in, and to allow me to look back at different parts of my life separate from the others. I’m also operating a colour scheme this year too, same as I did last year, because it seemed to work really well!

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New Years Resolutions | 1st Quarter Check-In

It’s broken record time my friends, but, can you believe that we are already a quarter of the way through 2019. Winter is starting to look like it’s behind us, the clocks have changed, and spring/summer clothing is definitely in the shops! For the past couple of years, I have made a resolutions list, and then checked back semi-regularly to hold myself accountable and actually think about things to focus my time on. I feel like the first quarter of 2019 has been very mixed, in many ways, so it will be nice to think about what I have accomplished and look forward with focus, determination, and quantifiable motivations.

My 2019 Resolutions list is once again made up of a mixed bag of motivations that were supposed to be carrying me through 2019 in a positive and healthy way. I know that I haven’t had these in the front of my mind this year for a whole host of reasons, but also know that if they were, I would probably be making bigger strides than I am this year.

My list is split up into sections, just like it was on my original 2019 Resolutions list. I’ve kept it like this to see if there are any areas I’m doing better or worse in, and to allow me to look back at different parts of my life separate from the others. I’m also operating a colour scheme this year too, same as I did last year, because it seemed to work really well!

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Adulting: KonMari and Kitchens

Anyone who knows me, or follows me on social media, or reads this blog, will probably know that I am not the most tidy of people. I have tried to employ different methods over the years, but nothing sticks and nothing actually helps me get past the surface mess and actually make enough storage space and room for the things that I actually want to keep, store, show off. My room and the space I live in has slowly been irritating me, which coincided with discovering the Netflix show ‘Tidying Up with Marie Kondo’ and my outlook on it all has changed.

I’ve reached that stage in my adult life where my relationship with the space I live in is changing. When I first moved into the house I live in now, I was so excited to move in to a painted, carpeted, fully fledged house of my own that I didn’t mind taking in all the old furniture family and friends had to spare. 3 years on and I am starting to notice things I would like to do and change to the house, things I need to sort and to decorate, and updates I would like to make. Continue reading “Adulting: KonMari and Kitchens”

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Travel in Retrospect is Under Construction

Hi Folks! I have a little bit of an announcement to make! I’ve decided to take the plunge and make some changes to my blog. I debated the pros and the cons in a Blog Spring Clean post a while a go, and have opted to go ahead and make some alterations. It’s a little bit scary, a lot exciting, and a fair amount more work than I hoped but things are moving and grooving, finally! Continue reading “Travel in Retrospect is Under Construction”

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A Guide to Growing Out a Pixie Cut

15 months ago I decided that my short and shaved pixie cut was a style ready for change. I was tired of having a cold neck and a lack of styling opportunities, and, 18 months after chopping it off was ready to start the process of growing it out. Safe to say a year ago in my original post I was unhappy with my progress and debating whether it was the right thing for me. Then, 7 months ago I was entering the bob phase and realising that I should have known better than to go it alone and roll with it.

Well, I can now announce that my hair officially ties back, and is pretty much up to my shoulders. Yey. Does that count as grown out? I think so. It’s not nearly as long as it used to be, and I haven’t reached the length I am aiming for (I don’t think, I don’t actually know what length I am aiming for), but it’s grown out and can no longer be called a short style. Continue reading “A Guide to Growing Out a Pixie Cut”

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Adulting: Spring Clean Update

A few weeks ago, in fact, almost a month to the day, I posted about my desire to have a spring clean in my bedroom, in the house, and in my car. Well, Spring is now officially upon us and I’ve had a week off work, so I’ve tried to sort some things out in the house (with some help along the way!) Nothing is perfect yet, we’re definitely still a way off yet, but it’s generally looking a lot better so I wanted to fill you in on a few of the things I’ve been doing. Continue reading “Adulting: Spring Clean Update”

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New Year’s Resolution: 1st Quarter Check-In

Last year, I decided to make a 2017 New Years Resolutions list. I thought about all of the things I wanted to accomplish throughout 2017, and at the end of the year, I checked back and reviewed the progress I had made. OK, so I didn’t complete everything that I wanted to, abandoning some things and excelling at others, but I think I did an all round alright job of sticking to them. In part, this is because I had a year full of motivations, but also because I regularly checked back throughout the year, from the start where I was finding my feet, the last half where I was attempting to complete as many as I could.

It really worked for me. For a start, I remember the resolutions I had made, and had them at the forefront of my mind for at least a few days. It allowed me to prioritise different tasks and goals throughout the year, and allowed me to keep track of the progress I made. AS it worked so well last year (if I do say so myself), I’m employing the same tactic this year!

My list is split up into sections, just like it was on my original 2018 Resolutions list. I’ve kept it like this to see if there are any areas I’m doing better or worse in, and to allow me to look back at different parts of my life separate from the others. I’m also operating a colour scheme this year too!

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Reading

Read at least 52 books

As of March 2018, I’ve read 27 books in 2018. I’m already over half way to my 52 book target, so I think it’s pretty safe to say that this target is on track, and will potentially be completed by the next quarterly check in. I thought about setting this target a little higher at New Year, but I wanted to make sure I left time to enjoy what I was reading and give myself the opportunity to read longer novels, or ones that take longer to finish.

Read 5 classics

I have finished a couple of books so far this year that would probably be considered as classics. I am currently reading another and have finished a couple of books that would be considered modern classics. I am not sure whether to count these yet, but, I am definitely reading more books with a classical pedigree.

Read 3 Non-fiction

In 2017 I really discovered non-fiction, and I am happy to say that I have nearly finished my 3rd non-fiction book of the year already. I have surprised myself a little bit by finishing so many so early, but it’s a genre that I’ve really come to embrace and enjoy!

Take part and actively engage in at least 5 readathons

As always, Bout of Books happens in January and I took great joy in taking part and being an expert once again. I’m actually liaising with the ladies to help a little more too. There will be 2 more readathons before the end of the year too. I’m taking part in a few reading challenges (Around the Year, Book Riot Read Harder, The Classics Club) and paid a little attention to 24in48 that happened earlier in the year (timing didn’t work out to engage fully). There are lots of readathons that happen throughout the year so I am sure I will comfortably hit this target.

Review every book I read

I have trialled a new thing this year: writing a full review for ARCs and some of the books I read, and completing a 140 character review for every book I read. I feel like it leaves me with pathetic reviews for a lot of what I read which didn’t happen last year, but it definitely means that I am fully reviewing more books, so it’s balancing act.

Blogging

Find a balance between blogging quality and quantity that I am happy with

Eek, I have put this as on track but I fear it might be a little generous. I am definitely writing a variety of post types which means the quality varies too. I like blogging every day and have done so for months now, but it does sometimes mean I forsake quality if time is lacking. I’d like to get a slightly better balance but I am definitely getting there.

Maintain blogging diversity e.g, travel, and personal, and books

Well, I don’t know if it is quite as diverse as I would like it, but I am definitely maintaining different blogging features. At the moment, my blog is largely book and lifestyle based. Books and reading feature heavily as does personal and adulting posts, but travel has become a little lost. I definitely have some work to do in this arena, but I am finding a good balance between personal and bookish posts so far.

Utilise scheduling

OK, so I have actually scheduled this post, but in reality I don’t do this often and therefore I am still left scrambling for a post and then desperately trying to finish it before I want it to go out. I feel so much better when I have posts scheduled, so I really need to start thinking about when I am posting, and writing it a little in advance.

Engage with other bloggers and online communities

D’you know what, of all my blogging commitments, this is probably the one I have thought about most. I am making a real effort to read more blog posts, and then like them if I have enjoyed them. I’m also commenting a lot more, because I like comments on my posts, and find it’s the best way to get to know fellow bloggers. I also love to reply to comments on my own blog so do my best to engage with every opinion on my posts.

Invest time tidying up my blog appearance/layout

I have been thinking a lot more than acting when it comes to my blog, but, I have started to make some changes. I have (finally) bought my domain which has made me happy, which also means that in the background I also have more storage. I have changed and tweaked some widgets and categories, and have started looking into new themes that have the capability of doing what I want them to. I am having a hard time splitting with my current theme fictive, it’s served me well and I really like it, but sadly doesn’t do some of the things I want or need it to, so I am researching and testing the logical alternatives. Watch this space!

Personal

Lose weight

This single resolution is by far the most important for me in 2018. I really want to shift some serious weight before my holidays, and even though I have stalled of late and not made as much progress as I would like to, Fat Friday has seen me lose over 20lbs overall so I can’t say I’m failing quite yet!

Exercise more

I am still not 100% up to as much as exercise as I would like, but I do regularly attend the gym, zumba classes, aquacise, do home yoga sessions, and now as the weather is starting to improve, I am walking more and more. I think I have started to notice an improvement with my fitness as a result, and could definitely do more, but I’m probably doing more than I have since leaving school, so that’s good.

Broaden healthy eating/recipes

OK, snacking is sneaking back into my diet a little bit, but often in the guise of healthier snacks like flavoured chickpeas or alike. I have broadened into the world of Moroccan food a little more, and made some pretty nice stews and slow cooker dishes this year. I’ve also embraced vegetables and began roasting vegetables more and more. I really like them so it’s worked well. I haven’t cooked as much as I would like to have, or with as much variety, but I definitely have tried some new things.

Travel more in the UK

I have not done well here, and I know that. I don’t think I have been to anywhere new this year, or even really visited anywhere I’ve been to before either. Oops.

Complete 5 things from my Bucket List/30 Before 30 list

I, erm, I haven’t really looked at these lists recently, never mind looked for things to cross off, but there is room for improvement, and I could certainly try to cross some things off, or set the wheels in motion at least.

Adulting

Save at least £100 every month

I have actually written a recent savings update post that details some of the strides I am making in both saving money, and understanding the complexities of the ways to save money. I have saved quite a lot of money for future travel plans, and I have also taken strides to understand my pension too. I can’t say I’ve completed it, because I haven’t passed through every month, but I have already saved the £1200 I was hoping for so there is that.

Sort my papers, bills, and important documents into a file

I really did intend to do this, on more that one occasion, but then I simply didn’t. It’s a real shame, because I’ve tried to organise other sections of my life and have made some serious progress. Now as things are more organised elsewhere then maybe I can concentrate on sorting important documents. I have at least put them all together(ish).

Tidy, sort, clean, and maintain my bedroom

I guilted myself into acting on this a few weeks ago by writing a Spring Clean post. I didn’t do everything I needed to, it’s not finished, but I have tidied it, and actually kept it in a reasonably good state since. I sorted my things out, so the cupboards and drawers are tidy inside and not just outside, and I have really thought about how I want the room to look. There is still some cleaning to do, and a couple of bits of tidying, and then there is also the gallery wall to complete too, but other than that it is looking good.

Tidy, sort, clean, and maintain the house, and do the decorating odd jobs I have been meaning to do in 2017

Again, this is by no means a finished article, but we’ve tried to look at things we need to do and finish them. The dining room has been sorted a few times, we finally got rid of the stuff we didn’t need (mainly cardboard). We’ve tried to clean the bathroom a little bit, and are trying to improve how it looks. The books around the house are looking better, and we have both got rid of a lot books and DVDs that we don’t want. Again, there are things we need to do around the house, art we need to frame and put up, but we’ve changed light bulbs, added light shades, and dismantled furniture we don’t want to let us think about the way we want the house to go.

Don’t waste time

OK, so I still sit around on the couch more than I probably should, but I have given up napping for lent (successfully I might add) and have been getting up a little earlier on the whole. Emma and I have been out a few times, to the cinema, theatre, Cheshire Oaks, and have plans to see more places over the spring/summer period. Yes, there is a lot of time I could utilise better still, but I’ve made a huge improvement here already.


Overall

We’re only 3 months in, so it’s really just early scores on the door, but I think I am doing OK. Unsurprisingly, I am doing best at my bookish/reading goals. It’s easy to curl up under a blanket in the cold weather, and to spend dark nights reading. I know I’ll still read lots over the year, but I always tend to read more when it’s winter. I am quite pleased with my blogging progress too. I am undoubtedly investing more time in my blogging content, appearance, and trying to engage more with the blogging community, and as a result I definitely feel like I am getting more out of it.

Personally, I am doing OK. I’ve had a few ups and downs at the beginning of the year, which has definitely impacted my progress. I am trying to improve this, and now as the weather is turning, I’m hoping to embrace the sun and warmth and harness it to help me with my fitness and weight loss goals. If I could get somewhere with those, I know my overall happiness would sky rocket.

Yes, there is definitely things to work on, but there are also good foundations for this. Lot’s of good things and lot’s of areas to improve, see you in June!

Have you made any goals or resolutions for 2018?

How are you finding them, and have you achieved any yet?

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Adulting: Savings Update

I don’t know if I have mentioned it over the past few months, but I am going to Disney at the end of the year. If you haven’t heard, I am going at the end of October, doing a couple of days in Universal (Harry Potter’s Wizarding World really) and then going on to Disney to get the best of the Hallowe’en and the Christmas decorations. I am anticipating wanting lots to of spending money to spend on souvenirs, knick knacks, and all round treat myself. The problem with this: Universal, Disney, Transatlantic flights, they are all expensive.

I’m super lucky that I work in travel, an industry that allows me to explore the world, and gives me an excuse to go on holiday. The “problem” with this is saving money for a trip that far in the future, when you have 3 international holidays planned before. I know I know, I shouldn’t complain, and I am 100% not actually moaning about this fact, I love travelling, but it means I have been sidetracked. I knew this would be an issue working in the job that I do, so as soon as I started, I opened a variety of savings accounts and began researching savings methods. Continue reading “Adulting: Savings Update”

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Adulting: Spring Clean

Yesterday, I posted all about my blog. I posted about the changes I wanted to make, and I posted about the big decisions I have ahead for how I want my blog to be. It made me think about my life as a whole. Now, stay with me here, it’s not going to be quite as deep as I made it sound there, but, why stop at an e-spring clean? My bedroom looks like a nuclear bomb detonated a series of hand grenades in every drawer and wardrobe and then a group of monkeys were released to reek havoc with any available piece of clothing. I know you’re probably thinking that’s an exaggeration, but the photos later will show you that I’m not joking.

My car is also creeping along the untidy scale at an alarming rate. I’ve had Pedro for about 6 months now, and I vowed to keep him clean and tidy. I was doing relatively well, he was quite tidy and pretty clean (at least on the inside) for quite a long time, but over the last couple of weeks, he has just suddenly began breeding rubbish. I know my car needs cleaning on the outside because I drive far each day between fields, and it is pretty dusty, but inside was always nice and neat. Now as that’s changing, it’s starting to stress me out a little, which in turn has stressed me out about my room.

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Adulting | Moon Cup Review

OK, I am going to start this post with a very short introduction. It’s going to be about all things ‘Ladies Time of the Month’, so, if this isn’t your bag, you don’t want to know, I’d encourage you to click on something a little more up your street! Continue reading “Adulting | Moon Cup Review”